How To Avoid Bad Sex Habit Not To Ruin Your Marriage
Bad sex can ruin a good relationship. Even for partners that adore, cherish,
and love each other. Couples who are sexually incompatible can never bond,
no matter what they believe in. Sex is essentially important in any real
Maintaining good verbal communication and a healthy level of sexual activity
will grow a relationship. There is a misleading notion that once married and
started having children, you are likely to start having bad sex.
There are millions of couples today who are having a happy and healthy and
fulfilling sex life. @SexWithDrJess Podcast.
Some bad sex habits to avoid
Avoid talking about sex
Good communication with your partner can lead to trust and it can take a good
turn on your sexual life. Intimacy lies in good communication skills. Lack of
communication can cause your partner to be wary and doubtful.
Trust is essential in the bedroom. It makes you feel comfortable expressing
what you feel and what you want.
Avoid no foreplay
Foreplay is important for satisfying sex. When it comes to sex, most women do
not like partners who go straight to the gold. Apparently, most of us are not
doing enough of it. Foreplay is something essential for women’s pleasure and
Foreplay allows women arousal to build and for vaginal lubricant to increase
which creates more comfort for enjoying sex.
Avoid blowing him without returning the favor
Giving another person pleasure can itself be pleasurable, sure. However, this
entirely changes when the person is only interested in themselves or too lazy
or disinterested in you to try to please you too. There is a saying that
“one good turn deserves the other”.
Avoid thinking of your own needs (orgasm)
Thinking of your own needs during intimate moments together with your partner
backfires. Reaching orgasm without giving your partner the opportunity to
enjoy sex, makes bad sex, and most likely to lead to relationship conflict.
Only one-quarter of women reliably experience orgasm during intercourse—no
matter how long it lasts, no matter what size the man’s penis, and no matter
how the woman feels about the man or the relationship. The most important
Bad hygiene during sex
When it comes to sex, women are more concerned about and sensitive to things
like poor personal hygiene. Bad hygiene is a subjective thing, and different
people may find different things to be a turn-off. Therefore, it is important
to not make assumptions and to figure out what your partner does and does not like.
Imagine your partner coming back from the gym all sweated up and hoping to
get intimate with you without cleaning up.
Lack of communication
When you fail to communicate with your partner, it is one of the easiest paths
to bad sex. Communication is the main thing in a relationship. You must open
to what you want and do not like it. Sexual fulfillment is not automatic.
You must not expect your partner to know what you want and like. Communication
leads to sexual satisfaction.
Avoid he comes earlier than you want
Avoiding not bringing your partner to orgasm because you already got yours.
It can be frustrating to couples when this happens. You want to make
intercourse last long enough to satisfy her. But from a biological standpoint,
you simply cannot.
Avoid excessive drinking
Being too drunk will not have sex enjoyable or pleasurable for you or your
partner. Alcohol can be a great aphrodisiac when taken in moderation. It is
unlikely that a couple of drinks are going to prevent you from ejaculating
but drinking too much can.
Excessive drinking can cause delayed ejaculation, which is taking longer than
30 minutes to reach orgasm and ejaculate with sexual stimulation. For some,
it can mean not being able to ejaculate at all, according to the Mayo Clinic.
Avoid not in the mood
If your partner is not in the mood on a regular basis in the bedroom could be
a sign of a big problem in your relationship.
The main reason this happens could be your partner does not feel satisfied
during sex. This can be resolved simply by changing the way you have sex. It
could be your partner needs more foreplay.
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In a nutshell, bad sex can make you feel like a failure. But that should not
stop you from improving yourself by learning to become better at sex.
It is normal for every couple to go through challenges. Those difficult times
should not define your relationship. Practice verbal and nonverbal communication.